I participated in the "Loving Kindness" practice this week and had mixed reactions about the experience. I found that I really liked the imagery that the narrator suggests but the amount of time afterwards to hold the image was too long and I found myself getting distracted and thinking about other things. I did however enjoy the ocean waves sounds during the intervals and thought that the overall experience was relaxing. I would recommend this to someone if they were looking for a way to expand their consciousness and open their hearts. One of the parts of the exercise that I particularly liked was the part about visualizing your enemies and taking away their suffering. I think forgiveness is incredibly important in achieving optimal health. When you are holding anger or resentment towards someone and you can't find a way to forgive them you are only hurting yourself. They don't know all of the emotions that are running in your head about that situation and more than likely they don't care. You have to forgive in order to release that anger and breed healthy thoughts and feelings rather than harboring negative emotions.
Mental workouts are exercises that stimulate mental activity and engaging the brain in active ways beyond watching television. The largest controlled clinical trial regarding mental workouts was funded by the National Institute of Health and reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association. The study found that mental exercises and cognitive training sessions improved the memory, concentration, and problem solving skills of healthy adults age 65 and older. The effects of these exercises were long lasting and erasing as much as 7 to 14 years of normal cognitive decline for at least 2 years. (NFNZ, 2014). There are several ways I can incorporate and implement mental workouts of my own to benefit from this knowledge. Social interactions have been proven to give positive results for healthy brain aging which means I need to continue to remain actively social. I start my new job at a school district working with many people so I think this new job will keep those social interactions very active. Continuing my education is another healthy brain exercise as it has been show that people who challenge their brain and actively gain knowledge are able to maintain healthy brain activity compared to lifestyles lacking in mental activity.
Neurological Foundation of New Zealand, (2014). Mental Workout. Retrieved from http://www.neurological.org.nz/brain-health/mental-workout
I also had the same experience that the exercise was way too long, and my mind started wandering. I love your writing on mental workouts. For the past 18 years I have been in what you call a NON-thinking job, when I entered back to school I found it quite difficult to train my mental-being on studying and participating in classes. Now that I have kept going in school, I feel I am more "in-tune" with others and has made it easier for me to understand and give input for a more important role in today's society. Keep up the great writings!
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Donna,
DeleteYou bring up a great point about the progression of mental activity as you continue to got hrough school. I remember when I first started going back to college in 2012 I was sort of a basket case with little focus. Now I can zip around websites and write papers like a champ and I know it's simply form exercising my brain. I have really enjoyed returning to college and I know it has sharpened my mental skills and made me more "in-tune".
I loved the sounds of the ocean waves, it soothes me. I have problems controlling my mind at times and it bugs me, but I will get there soon, I hope. Forgiveness is very hard especially when you have been hurt really bad! But it also helps soothe the soul. Great post!
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DeleteYou are absolutely right that forgiveness is hard to do and especially when the person that hurt you clearly doesn't deserve forgiveness. The problem with not forgiving is that by not forgiving you are only hurting yourself and the other person will continue to hurt you way beyond the initial incident.
Wow James, great post! So ironic that you wrote about forgiveness because I did too this weekend on my real blog website! (here's the link in case you want to read it http://blendhappy.com/forgiveness/)
ReplyDeleteIt seems like we both drew similar thoughts to this weeks meditation assignment. I liked the waves too, but wasn't keen on the instructions. I have said it already to others, but I'll say it again. I have my own loving-kindness meditations that I like to use that focuses on love for others, and a little on myself too. But I do believe that one must love, and accept, themselves wholly before anyone else can. Also, once a person "loves" themselves (in a healthy way of course) it's easier to love other people. Ever notice those who are jealous are just low in self-esteem and low on self love. Anyway, I wholeheartedly agree that resentment hurts and forgiveness heals. Thanks for you insights James, I always love and enjoy reading anything you write!
Heather, I read your real blog site and loved your thoughts on forgiveness. Your blog was an expanded version of mine and really went into the whole idea of forgiving if you want to get rid of negative thoughts and emotions that can lead to illness and keep you from achieving optimal health. Thanks for sharing!
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ReplyDeleteGreat blog! Theres a lot of information here! ;) I too agree that social interactions can play a big part in healthy brain activity. i find that when I meet with my friends and chat I feel more relaxed and happy, interesting!
Angie H.
My thoughts exactly Angie! As a case in point I spent a year in Kuwait in 2011 and was largely by myself with little to no social interactions for that year. I was not only miserable but also had an uncomfortable level of anxiety about always being by myself. It was like isolation or solitary confinement and I can see now how effective that is as a punishment to prisoners because as humans we thrive on social interactions.
DeleteJames, I liked reading your blog it was very informative. And yes I agree with you that people should not hold grudges because it is irrelevant and that person might not know why you are upset with or they just might not care and go on with their lives as well as the person that is holding the grudge should. I have learned that as I have gotten older. Great Job
ReplyDeleteThanks! Heather did a great job of talking about forgiveness on her blog as well at http://blendhappy.com/forgiveness/
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